Episode 49

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13th Oct 2025

49. How to Lead When You Don’t Love the Job Anymore

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Episode Synopsis:

When a boss once asked James if he loved his job, it sparked a reflection that changed how he thought about leadership. Loving your job isn’t the point — caring is. In this episode, James explains the difference between emotional attachment and consistent commitment, and why leaders drift into disengagement long before burnout shows up. It’s a reminder that leadership isn’t fueled by passion; it’s sustained by care.

Key Message: You don’t have to love your job to lead well — but you do have to care enough to keep showing up like it matters.

Episode 49: How to Lead When You Don’t Love the Job Anymore

Episode 3 in the series Engaged Leaders

“Do you love your job?”

It sounds like a harmless question — until you realize how loaded it really is.

In this episode, James shares a story about being asked that question early in his career and what it revealed about leadership. Loving your job isn’t the point. Caring about the work, the people, and the mission is what keeps a company alive.

This episode is for founders who feel disconnected from the business they once poured everything into — and want to rediscover how to lead from conviction again.

  • The difference between love and care in leadership
  • How leaders drift into disengagement without realizing it
  • Why your team feels your loss of care long before you do
  • How to rebuild connection without chasing passion

Reflection Questions

  • Do you still care — really care — about what you’re building?
  • Are you investing that same care into your people, or just checking boxes about their performance?

Links and Resources

  • The Next Question Guide → NextQuestionGuide.com
  • LinkedIn → linkedin.com/in/jamesmayhew
  • Website → JamesMayhew.com
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About the Podcast

Leadership in 5
Lead better in 5 minutes. Tactical insights for founders who want clarity, momentum, and a business that doesn’t break them.
Execution without excuses. Five minutes. One insight. No wasted words.

Leadership In 5 is the podcast for founders and executives who are done with vague advice and tired of hearing “just communicate better” like it’s a strategy.

I’m James Mayhew. I’ve served as Chief Culture Officer, coached hundreds of leaders, and made the thousand-plus execution mistakes so you don’t have to. I work with high-growth companies that are scaling fast — but who still want to lead with values, not ego.

Each episode delivers one sharp insight you can act on. You’ll hear practical guidance built on clarity, not charisma. No theory. No fluff. Just real leadership tools that work in real companies with real people.

This show exists to help you stop over-functioning, stop repeating yourself, and stop holding it all together just to keep the wheels turning. You deserve a business that works without breaking you.

The show is grounded in The IDP Way, a leadership system built on Integrity, Dignity, and Prosperity. If those words resonate, you’ll feel at home here. And if they challenge you? Even better. Growth starts with honesty.

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Thanks for listening... and for leading.

About your host

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James Mayhew

James R. Mayhew is a leadership coach and strategic advisor to founders and executives building fast-growth, values-driven companies. He created the IDP Way, a leadership system grounded in integrity, dignity, and prosperity. James helps leaders align people, purpose, and performance so their business can scale with clarity, not chaos.

He’s served as Chief Culture Officer, coached hundreds of leaders, and built execution systems that actually work.